{ Rock Star 6th Birthday Party for Miss Adeline Brett – We Cranked It Up to 11! }
Posted on January 12, 2012
Miss Adeline Brett’s rock star 6th birthday party was a super blast to plan and even more fun getting to play there! Our kiddo parties are usually more along the lines of some pizza and friends in the backyard garden … but this year she asked for a punk rock star theme and we had so much fun planning and ended up getting a little carried away with the fun of it all.
Keep in mind that all this wasn’t *just* for Adeline (we’re not into the spoiled kid parties or getting so wrapped up in making things “pretty” that we forget to enjoy the important things and have fun) … it was for us, for her sister, for all Addie’s friends and all our friends and family to come and be silly and have fun! Apologies for the photo overload … this post is very image heavy (and all processed with Paint the Moon actions that are coming soon)!
The party was as surprise … the first surprise party Addie’s had, so there was extra excitement in the preparations. The awesome part was that I did all the planning and preparing while the kids were sleeping, and when it was party time I had most of the photos out of the way so I could put the camera down and not miss out on any of the fun!






It was bone chilling cold outside … the poor girls were troopers and we just took ten minutes to take a few shots of all of us decked out. I very rarely wear make up and felt SO weird with so much piled on. Both Scott and I agreed it just emphasized how dang old we are (he was the proud recipient of heavy black eyeliner errr… GUYliner, ha!). We looked like washed up oldsters who’ve seen too much rock and roll, drugs and alcohol and were refusing to admit we were washed up. LOL!







Getting ready Miss Eliza loved the boots and leg warmers but wanted nothing to do with any stinkin’ clothes.

The invite, aka, Rock Concert Ticket. She had her own little site set up for the invite and RSVP as well … adelinebrett.com. The graphic designer in me took over with the design of everything … late at night as the girls slept is when I worked on all this. And, yep, the QR code worked to bring the guest to the invite/RSVP site. We also had QR codes set up on the back of the backstage passes … the kids were met at the velvet rope out front to be given their exclusive, personalized Backstage All Access Pass and their pass code was scanned – on the screen they would see this pop up: backstage pass code, so we “knew” they were cleared for access.

After photos outside, as far as Addie knew, I was going to go run errands downtown after they dropped me and Eliza off. I was actually setting up the party while they picked up some cupcakes … and then they came back downtown to “pick mommy up.” She walked in and still didn’t understand it was HER party. She was going to beg her daddy to just bounce one time on the bounce castle before she had to leave to go home to the tiny family get together she thought we had planned.
Imagine her surprise when we told her THAT was her party … and the bouncy castle was her birthday gift! Okay, you don’t have to imagine it because I snapped a picture!

The very moment of surprise when she walked in, saw everything and realized it was all for her!! Also note that all these indoor shots were taken in a dark ballroom at night with no flash … so we are talking an average of 2500 for ISO.

The band invited ALL the kids up on stage with their little inflatable guitars from their swag bags to “play” guitar. It was quite a sight seeing 25 kids lined up rocking out together … the guitarist stood in the back playing so they all felt like they were the ones making the amazing music.
This is Adeline and her best friend, crazy Miss M.




The band played Happy Birthday to her as we all sang along … it just happened to be the coolest and the LONGEST rendition I’ve ever heard. She was *dying* to eat that cupcake and blow out those candles and kept a smile glued to her face the whole time, but it lost it’s luster about two minutes in. You could see the “Come on, already, there is cake to be eaten!!!” written all over her face!

We were so excited to have the amazing artist Miranda Vettrus play for us all night. We have friends of ours to thank for hooking us up with them (and for helping manage all the music and sound that night – Jason is an awesome friend and massively talented in numerous areas). Adeline had heard her music before and actually asked if she could come to her birthday party … I explained famous musicians were very busy, so I didn’t think so, but I would sure check. Imagine her surprise! And she played all of Addie’s favorites for her … a little Johnny Cash and the Bright Eyes song that was playing when she was born. This mama was a bit teary eyed throughout the night. Our good friends are up there playing too (Jason on drums and Silver on bass guitar) … take a look at their sweet little girl, Echo, rocking out with them!

I took a super simple light set up down with me so I could get mug shot style photos of any guests who wanted to jump in before leaving the party.


And here are some of the party details. I went a little overboard and designed a whole “brand” for Adeline’s party, right down to the little punk girl graphic that looked just like Addie and her own site (adelinebrett.com) was transformed for the party! I got so involved in the festivities and just enjoying watching my little girl have fun and be a total crazy girl that I never got to snap photos of the set up all complete, which was a bit of a bummer, but I don’t regret missing some silly photos in exchange for playing with my girls and being totally present in the moment. As many photos as you see here (and, yes indeed, there are a lot), they were taken very quickly so I could just enjoy the party and special moments without the camera in front of my face.







And in response to some of the nasty comments I received yesterday that I had to hide …
Note: There was no elaborate spending being done here, just the combination of lots of hard work and creativity as well as being lucky to pull some strings including being blessed with friends in the music industry, finding a space where the rental fee was going to a good cause to help teens in need, taking advantage of this mommy’s graphic design skills and making it all come together. This was a super fun gathering of family and friends in the middle of the holiday season and I really don’t see why I’ve heard so many negative comments about throwing a fun party for our loved ones to enjoy. Everyone had a blast, and we don’t regret it for a second. For her party next year she has asked for her friends to come over to our place in the country and pet her animals – that’s it.
She’s definitely not suffering from spoiled kid syndrome. And I suppose I have to be a little snotty and say, even if I did decide to spend a lot of money on my kid’s party and could afford to do so, ummmmm … who cares!?
And while I realize the punk rock theme may not be for everyone, the party was for a little girl who absolutely adores music (and, yes, she loves some authentic but kid appropriate punk music in there as well). We have many friends in the music industry and who are musicians themselves (half the band are close friends of ours). She loves dance, music and art. Her mommy and daddy and all her friends also love music and everything creative … so it was a natural pick for her to have a party celebrating those loves. To each their own! I know that all her friends and our friends and family all LOVED it, so we’re good with it! I’d also like to say that our usual party is somewhere along the lines of pizza and friends in the backyard … but this was a unique and fun experience too.
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That is seriously the coolest party ever! what a lucky girl!!! Im your newest follower, look forward to reading your blog
Annie I just have to tell you how much I love your blog!!!! I stumbled upon it recently-not even sure how really. your actions are AMAZING and I can’t wait to purchase more (recently purchased the fresh wonderful bundle) Keep up the great blogging-you are a SUPERMOM!!!!!!!:)
Love it! This is the most original idea that I’ve seen for a little one’s birthday party and I so enjoyed the pictures. I’ve been following your work for a little over a year. Not sure how I originally came across you on Flickr, but so glad I did. I love your PS actions. You do amazing work and are such an inspiration. Thanks!
omg- i can’t believe you would receive nasty comments! ugh, people! there is definitely a fair share of nasty trolls on the internet. i was sitting in amazement reading through this post and looking at all the photos. the only question i had was “wow, how did she do that??” i kept asking that over and over again. SO SO cool! and i would do the same for my child if i had the talent and all of the connections. me proud, mama! let the haters be haters and don’t give them another second of your time. they are jealous!
I think you’re fantastic, I admire your work, I never tire of seeing these photos. AMAZING!! Congrats to you and Addie!!
Maria Tamez from Monterrey Mexico.
love the party pictures! But, I really just wanted to say that you owe no one an explanation as to your celebration of your child’s birth! You didn’t ask anyone to pay for it, and I’m sure attendance was voluntary, so celebrate your baby any way you want!!!
This is one of the most awesome ideas for a birthday party ever… the pix are all great.
What a fun theme for her party! I’m loving it, especially the microphone cakes in the ice cream cones, how smart
This is gorgeous Annie! Don’t let the haters take the joy out of it, who gives a flip what they think?!
New follower here.. will you follow me?
I LOVED this blog. I love that you gave her what she wanted.. and used all the means you could find to make it happen. You all look amazing. The pictures are awesome! I look forward to reading more about your family!
What an awesome birthday party; you are so talented and creative! We think you ROCK!
Love it!
Love, love, love your blog….both of them! Thank you for sharing your personal life with us as well as all the great helpful photography info. I can’t believe that people actually had negative things to say about the party…wth! I think that was a fabulous idea and how fun!!!! Keep up the good work and I hope you keep sharing with us! : )
Good heavens, that has to be the best birthday party ever. LOL at the Turning Six Rocks Tour!
Wow! I love this birthday concept. It’s rockin’ COOOOOL.
What an awesome party! I want to come hang at your place- looks like fun!
Hi Annie, I don’t usually stop to leave comments but just had to respond to this… you threw an amazing party for your sweet little girl, and you certainly shouldn’t have to explain that to anyone. I can’t believe people would stop to leave negative, nasty comments about a birthday party that was clearly put together with so much love and attention to detail, and is something that your little one will never forget. Don’t allow these people to bring you down, it’s no one’s business how much money you spend on your child, you don’t owe anyone an explanation. You are an extraordinary inspiration to me and so many others, so keep doing what you do, your children are blessed to have such a caring, loving mother and you are clearly blessed with a beautiful family and incredible skills and talent. Keep your head up, much love!
Ranjini
What an awesome time you guys must have had! Your little girl will have memories to last a lifetime!
Um…. I want you to be my mom c: & you make me want to be a better mother.. Thank you for that.
I cant believe anyone would say anything negative about the birthday party you gave your little girl, some people are just strange!! It looked awesome and gave me some great ideas for my 9 year olds party this year, we did alice in wonderland last year. Like you i enjoy making & creating things and photographing everything and not spending a fortune (but doesnt matter if you do, its your family so dont listen to the negative) I love you blog by the way your photographs are amazing
Linda
Annie….what a really cool party you put together for your daughter…..YOU’RE AMAZING!!!
You truly are an amazing woman
May God Bless you and your family
Hi Annie!
I just wanted to say that I think this is one of the best party set ups I have ever seen! I’m sure your daughter was super excited! I don’t think I will ever understand why people think they can make hateful, negative, and selfish comments whenever they feel like it. I contribute it to having “no home training!” What you spend and how you spend on your kids is NOBODY’s business! Gosh! The nerve of some people. Any whoooo… I love all of your ideas, and will probably be stealing a few for my daughter’s 5th bday party. (I’m not as creative as you are!)
Keep up the great work!!
HOLY COW! You are a regular Martha Stewart, but WAY BETTER! The pictures are awesome, the party is awesome…. VERY VERY cool!!!!
This is the most AMAZING birthday I have ever seen. My kiddos are a bit old now but everything is truly stunning.
So much effort and what a presentation. Kudos to you mom! Beautiful photography as well.
Michelle
What a wonderful celebration for your family! You are certainly a mommy to admire. I love that you try your best to make your girls feel special…you are so creative and loving.
Looks like most awesome birthday celebration ever! You have one lucky kid there.
That looks like such a fun party! I book marked it or ideas for my daughters Birthday! Thanks and I can’t believe people were giving you a hard time about it! Kids are supposed to have fun parties its those things they remember and if you and your husband work hard and want to give her one that is your business!!
I just had to leave a comment and tell you what an amazing party you threw for your daughter! WOW! You thought of every detail, all the stuff went sooo well together. I’m sure everyone has told you, but looked like a Rockin’ Party!
Very inspiring, wish I could go all out like that, how wonderful! You are blessed!
This is totally awesome. What a special girl and what a great event. I’m amazed by the things you’ve had to do in preparation. The colours look amazing. What a great idea for a rock style party. Well done, you!
I’m dying for a little girl and you give me more reason to want one.
Ummmmmm. So. A few things here. I LOVE YOU!
I think this ABSOLUTELY ROCKS that you did this for your daughter! I would LOVE To be able to pull something this awesome off for my daughter some day (she is turning 3 in May). I have just, for the first time, really gotten to “know” you (been following you on FB for a while) via your blog and the photo you just posted that sweet Adeline took with her “bokeh!”!!! You, my dear, are an amazing woman, wife and mother, and don’t let ANYONE tell you any differently!!!!!! I can’t believe that anyone would even think for a second that they have any right to post (on your public blog no less) that you spoiled.. or whatever! It is, after all, your life and your family. And from what I can tell, you are doing it all with love and grace!
HUGS to you and YOU ROCK!
This is an extremely cute party idea!
I am just seeing this now- I agree, it’s your business how you spend your money. We had a huge party for my 12 year old’s bday last year, it was more like a Sweet 16, at our country club. I make no apology for it. My husband and I work hard for what we have. I think the key is that your kids don’t expect it EVERY year and that is something we did tell Madison in advance. Also they should learn to appreciate it and realize not everyone has elaborate parties. After 3 kids, I do understand where they can end up feeling entitled (my 18 year old son LOL), so I am aware of that, and I’m careful to be picky and choosey when I want to splurge on my kids. But again it’s your business when and how you spend your money.
I can’t see why anyone would be negative about the wonderful thought and talent you have in pulling off this beautiful party! I have a six year old as well and I would be thrilled if she asked for a party like this so I can steal some of your beautiful ideas!
wow’ your blog are so unique and cute.. i Don’t even feel bored reading your article… keep it up..!!
Wow, I love this! You’re so talented and creative! <3 Very inspiring!
Your Photgraphic work, both camera and photoshop is nothing short of Genius. As a graphic/theatre/film designer, I find what you’ve accomplished to be astounding, especially the bulk of your image actions which look amazing. If I took more portraits (or was a photographer – which I only dream of being some day) I would totally be a customer. Keep up the good work. You also look like a great crafty/creative mom that would rival even Martha! Cheers!
Annie, this party looks amazing and SO fun. I love the theme, and the makeup. SO TOTALLY awesome, and I don’t think you should have had to explain yourself to anyone… they are your kids, and it is your life… <3 Like you said… "who cares!" Hehe, just have to tell you one more time, I LOVE IT!!! <3
Annie, this party look amazing and SO mish fun. I love the theme, and I love the makeup. You are an amazing woman. Have to say one more time… LOVE IT!!!
Also, that end picture taken by “that very sweet guest” is quite funny. hehe.
What an awesome idea!! Love the theme! I bet everyone had a blast! Love the creativity!
I just stumbled on to your space and I am in awe of your skills and so happy that you and your family had a fantastic way to celebrate your child!!! I am sorry you had to explain yourself to your haters!! That’s a real shame that someone thought so poorly to have to downgrade what was a wonderful moment for your family. And if you can afford it…fuck it…no need to explain to loser who are jealous!!
Best wishes.
AWESOME!!!!! I also have NO idea why people leave negative comments… I think they’re just jealous that they can’t throw as awesome of a party! haha I also LOVE to throw big parties. I’m not made of money, but like you, with a lot of hard work, creativity and saving a bit of moolah over a few months.. i’m able to throw some pretty awesome parties that everyone just loves and always have fun at. I think it’s ridiculous that people think kids with parties like this are spoiled… NO, us mama’s just like to do it and have fun!! So, way ta go and thanks for all the inspiration!
I just stumbled onto your site today via pinterest and a search for rock star themed party. What a wonderful job you did on this party and all of the other things that I’ve seen here. I am in AWE! I can’t believe you had ugly comments. Keep doing what you’re doing! You’re obviously a terrific mom!!!
Wow! That party ROCKED! My little rockstar is turning six and you have really inspired me. My favs are the ticket invites and backstage passes! YOU ROCK!!
OMG IM SO JEALOUS!!! love this party and wish we had an invite! lol… my girls are like in awe of looking at all the pics and keep saying “mommy can we be rockstars too”..
awesome!